I Wore Heels and I Didn’t Die


As the poster child for all shoes flat, I rarely wear a shoe that has more than a one inch elevation. I only wear heels on certain occasions like never. Okay well honestly, I feel like on my birthday I should be sassy and put on a pair. Last year, I bought some that were my fav hue: black with my fav accent: gold. Did I ever wear them outside of my living room? No. I was walking like a tranny during her first trip down the runway when I tried them on but still packed them in my suitcase.

I put the whole heel thing on the back burner again until my birthday this year. I began to search for shoes that weren’t stripperheelesque. How did that even become a trend? After I gave up, I stumbled upon some at Kohl’s. I was only in that darned store because I made a trip to my hometown and forget my favorite bra. Kohl’s is the only place that can console my bust.

Oops, I digress, I stumbled upon a pair of nude patent leather Candies that were inspired by those strappy Manolo Blahnik’s with the “chaos cuff”. They were a splitting image of the $725 shoe right there on display for $30. I tried them on and could walk more than five steps so I bought them. Thanks again shoe gods. I wore them twice during my birthday trip/celebration to Georgia, it was great! I was proud. Small step for mankind, gigantic one for Mila!

On that Sunday night:


On that Monday night:


Watch me werk,



Four Pairs Three Twenties


After Santa ignored my request for Jelly boots, I decided to comb through some online deals on the day after Christmas with a fifty dollar budget. This was a tedious mission since I had been summoned to work but I was determined and persistent. My first stop was at the site of the retailer that I knew for sure had the boots and in every color you could think of, Bakers. They weren’t offering a sale and they were listed for $59.99 plus the cost of shipping. As a girl who likes to get all the bang she can for her buck, I decided to pass on what was being offered.

My mission was interrupted several times by actual work; distracting me from my target. After handling my clients I refreshed my Instagram feed and there lied a gem from the shoe gods. Urbanog.com was offering 50% off any transaction that included at least $40 worth of sales merchandise! This is a website that I often frequent just because I love shoes and they have any kind that you can ever think of; a girl can dream can’t she? I had purchased from them in the past and had total confidence in the fact that they would have the boots that I’d been looking for at a better deal than I’d seen earlier on in my mission.

There was a pleasant surprise waiting for me on Urbanog.com as I found the jelly boots for $29.60 in blue. I went on to find that there was a section full of items that were buy one get one 50% off which could be combined with the promo code that would get me yet an additional 50% after I reached $40 in my shopping cart. After all was said and done, I had hit a serious lick. I checked out with four pairs of boots including a pair of trendy military boots, two pairs of knee boots, and the boots that Santa didn’t think that I deserved. I spent less than $60 including shipping, WHAT’S MY NAME? I was so geeked when I got them in the mail the other day that I couldn’t wait to try them on and share my awesome deal. I especially couldn’t wait to put on my jellies with my lucky blue scrunch socks that I’ve had since eight grade, nostalgia.


To top things off, I found an unexpected deal on some over the knee socks to wear with them. Kohl’s doesn’t really have much to offer a girl like me so I only visit the store when I have Kohl’s cash. After some Christmas shopping, I came up on $10 worth. I ran in Kohl’s and after probably an hour of trying to decide on trying to find something, anything, I found that Apt 9 socks were buy one get one 50% off. The over the knee socks were ten dollars each which means that I got two pairs for a little over $5 after tax. Score!!!

I can’t wait for my next mission. It’s a sin to not be thrifty, that’s the eleventh commandment, remember?

Not all of us can ball on a budget but for those who have it down, I salute!


My $1 Ode to Hip Hop

As an individual with a shopping habit, I can pretty much get my fix anywhere. I typically hate Wal-Mart but its the only place that is open during the wee hours of the morning when I’m making my morning commute to work. I stopped in to grab a greek yogurt but like most who visit a big box retailer, I started to wander. I was passing through the men’s clothing section on my way to check out some tye dye kits when I peered over and seen a sign that said $3 posted above a rack of shirts. The shirts were flannels and I immediately envisioned images of Cypress Hill, Ice Cube, NWA, and Snoop Dogg in my head. I picked up the shirt and score, the price sticker on the shirt said $1, yes four quarters! I grabbed two in different colors and was the happiest camper to ever venture through the ugly aisles of Wal-Mart! I paired this $1 shirt with some legging shorts that I paid less than ten dollars for at Forever 21 and my Doc Martens! Being a thrifty shopper is an art, I’m working on perfection!



The image that streamed through my head:


My interpretation:

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Speak Volumez

One of the keys to having a happy life is to surround yourself with those who are driven and those who inspire you. As I have gotten older, I have learned that quality really does trump quantity when it comes to every aspect of life, especially friendships. I met the owner and operator of Volumez Styling many years ago and her style itself speaks volumes! To me she has been a beaming light of confidence, flare, and style so I was stoked when she shared her plan to endeavor into the fashion business! She has taken her zesty New Jersey style, east coast charm, and bold fashion sense and decided to help others out by offering styling and providing personal shopping services. Her zest for life and spunky personality make the experience one of a kind. I took a few moments to get into this young entrepreneurs head with a quick Q &A sesh:

Q: What inspired you to begin your own business?

A: I’ve always known, I would one day run my own company. I’m very independent and driven when it comes to business. My family is a great source of inspiration, I only want to make them proud.

Q: How long have you been styling?

A: Professionally a little under year, however I’ve been styling myself since I was a teenager. The tender age of 11, my mother always allowed me to dress myself and where whatever hairstyle I wanted. Creative freedom allowed me to find my true passion in fashion.

Q: What influences your style?

A: I like to have a mixture of everything when I’m getting dressed. The Hip Hop culture has my attention with the big accessories, sweat shirts, baggy pants. On the other side I’m such a girlie girl, tutus make me happy, stilettos, bright colors and anything sparkly. My most recent obsession is tribal prints, African wear and statement necklaces. I’m in character whenever It’s time to get dressed, the question is always “who do you want to be today?”

Q: How much do you think geography plays into someone’s personal style?

A: You can definitely tell where someone is from by their style of dress. Meanwhile you have those misfits that don’t belong anywhere. Those are the people I look up to, their the fashion rebel with no apologies. I’m a risk taker when it comes to fashion, I don’t like looking like everyone else.

Q: Where do you see Volume Styling five years from now?

A: I see the company having at least two brick and mortar stores located between Tampa FL and Ohio. Thriving online and extending the brand, we providing styling and image consultations as this present time. However I would like to see what we can do for the big screen. I have a passion for editorial work and short films. You can be whoever you want to be in that setting. So this too is a goal of mines for the company.

Q: What type of services do you currently offer your clients?Are there other areas that you wish to grow into?

A: We offer personal shopping, image consultant and wardrobe styling. However we do carry accessories, handbags and women’s apparel. I do offer personal shopping services for both men and women and love to help find special pieces for special events!

Q: What were your favorite trends during the summer season?

A: Skater skirts, bandeau tops, boots with shorts and the must have Kimono jacket! We will be featuring these item on the website.

Q: How can prospective clients get in contact with you?

A: I’m very personal when it comes to business all calls come directly to me or I can be reached by email, either one is fine. No office hours, I work for you!


Volumez is cost conscious and perfect for those who are looking for some help on turning the volume on their style. I am a fan, supporter, and customer! I personally cannot wait to see what is in store for this young entrepreneur, its only the beginning!

Here’s how you can get in touch when you’re ready to pump up your volume:
Myiesha Wilson
609 933-0644
Facebook: Volumez Volumestyling

*All fashions shown in photos can be found by using the above contact information.

The 11th Commandment: Be Thrifty

From left to right as shown in photo: Printed jean Red Rover Brand, $.99, White jean fringed Levi’s, $2.99, Printed rayon White Stag, $.99
From left to right as shown in photo:
Printed jean Red Rover Brand, $.99, White jean fringed Levi’s, $2.99, Printed rayon White Stag, $.99

If you’re as lucky as I am, you were born with the ‘thrifty’ DNA strand embed in your genetic makeup. I was born with the strand and then modeled into a price conscious shopper by my mother and grandma. My mother is a woman who shops from the front of the store to the back, a clearance countess so to speak. I didn’t know some stores had sections outside of the clearance until I was an adult. This was not due to financial hardships as we lived a cushy life as I was growing up, this was mother’s compulsive obsession to never pay full price. My mother loves to sew so there were no limits to what we could do with our finds! Too big? We could alter it. Missing a button? Let’s get new ones! Grandma introduced me to thrift stores and yard and sales and is to blame for my addiction to the sound of hangers running across the bars in the store as I shuffle through random things looking for a treasure. I have her to thank for one of my favorite past times, shopping. As a young Mila, I got up every summer morning to head to yard sales and then hit the local Goodwill with grandma.

Fast forwarding to today, thrifting is “trendy”. Who knew? Thrifting is like a treasure hunt for me. I feel like a pirate looking for her booty on every trip. Yes, pun intended. On my latest trip to my favorite Volunteers of America on Henderson Road in Columbus, Ohio, I made a major come up. Three pairs of shorts for less than five dollars! I have big plans for these babies and can’t wait to rock them all summer…stay tuned, I might give you a peek!

Rules for thrifting: keep an open mind, never pay more than five dollars for any single item, look for posted “sales” on certain color price tags, give yourself plenty of time (lazy Sundays are ideal).

Now get out there and get your thrift on!

P.S. You will become immune to the smell after approximately two trips.